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Friday, May 1, 2015
4:23 PM | Posted by Scott | Edit Post
What do you believe about your marriage?
Then life happens. And faith wanes.
Do you still believe in your marriage? Maybe it would be better if I asked it this way: "What do you believe about your marriage - right now?"
It's not a rhetorical question. What you believe about your marriage is just as important as what you believe about your spouse, the topic we covered last time in Part 1 of this series.
What you believe about your marriage will largely determine the path of your future relationship with your spouse.
3 Important Beliefs
There are dozens of suggestion I could make on what you should believe about your marriage, but to keep it simple, I'm only going to offer three here:
1) God is For Your Marriage - Most Christians would agree that God is for marriage. After all, He's the one who created it in the first place. But did you know that God is for YOUR marriage in particular. He cares about the health, passion, intimacy level and longevity of your marriage, and He is wanting to actively partner with you to help you have the marriage you dream of. Pray for your marriage and your spouse. Ask God to lead you by the Holy Spirit in the way you speak, act and think concerning your marriage. He is anxious to help. Your marriage matters to God. Believe it.
3) The Best is Yet to Come - Society and the media will tell you that marriages ultimately decline. It's a lie. If you walk in the truth of beliefs 1 and 2 above, then it is entirely possible to continually grow closer regardless of how long you've been married. Don't believe the myth that marriages eventually end up in roommate status no matter what you do. Work to keep your sex life vibrant, to continue to date your spouse, to give yourself fully to your spouse and marriage, to invest in romance and other emotional dimensions of your relationship. You can and should keep your marriage on the Path of Intimacy.
Yes, what you believe about your marriage really matters. Your beliefs drive your thoughts, actions and words. Give some thought to the things your are believing about your marriage these days and ask yourself if these beliefs will take you where you want to go.
What key marriage beliefs would you add to my three? Leave a comment!
PS Take a minute to give this fabulous song a listen, God Believes in You by Pierce Pettis.
Remember as you listen, that God believes in your marriage too!
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