tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613335924468202284.post3541087418402160076..comments2023-07-30T05:51:02.673-04:00Comments on Journey to Surrender: The Gift of More EngagementScotthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15382135979097709418noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613335924468202284.post-22564834503708309492015-01-12T13:28:44.262-05:002015-01-12T13:28:44.262-05:00Hi Tori. I'm sorry to hear of the troubles in...Hi Tori. I'm sorry to hear of the troubles in your sex life and marriage. Past sexual trauma often requires professional assistance to work through and that would be my suggestion. Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15382135979097709418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613335924468202284.post-53063627761837261832015-01-11T17:42:15.380-05:002015-01-11T17:42:15.380-05:00I recently noticed a trend in our lack of sex. He...I recently noticed a trend in our lack of sex. He and I were both sexually active before our marriage, both with each other and with others. As a result, when my husband met me, he viewed me as dirty. I have gotten right with God and gotten rid of the shame sexual immorality causes. However, when I engage fully, he still views me as damaged or dirty. This is especially a problem since I have been used for sex since I was 4 by just about every man who has shown me sexual interest. He was also sexually abused and raised in a home where sex was viewed as something dirty. This is by far our biggest hindrance to a good sex life. Any suggestions?torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16674570483751211351noreply@blogger.com